“In my head, I’m so ugly. That’s ok cause so are you.”
– Kurt Cobain, Lithium
“I don’t have sex appeal. I’m just fucking hot that all girls are drawn to me. I don’t have sex appeal.”
– Cleo
There’s a famous saying in the PUA community that goes something like this “Looks doesn’t matter.”
I just want to say that looks fucking matters. Hate me but that’s reality.
I know that this phrase is used for newbies who are not so good-looking to boost their confidence. In turn, this idea won’t add up on their million insecurities when it comes to being successful with women. Well, for me that’s a good thing, but I don’t want you to live in a fucking delusion because not knowing reality makes a lot of PUA weird in some ways. Yes, let’s make this world a better place.
First of all, looks matter. That’s why a good-looking guy gets more attention from girls than a person who is a Quasimodo look-a-like. If you are not grounded on this reality, you probably won’t cut your hair or anything to look good in order to attract women, and it’s just pathetic if you are serious on this aspect of our manly life. Yes, Quasimodo had his share of a beautiful woman but it’s Disney and you’re not living in a fucking fairytale.
My mentor always says to people who are studying how to pick-up women that looks matter only if you think it matters. I believe this 100% percent. But this phrase is not complete. It’s like the Buddha saying that enlightenment is the end of suffering. Let a spiritual guru elaborate the what Buddha said, and let me explain the meaning of the phrase “Looks matters only if you think it matters.”
Look at it this way. If you think that politics matters in the development of you as person then it will matter. You will be pissed at it. You will write a banner saying “Nancy Binay is a fucking retard!” and probably get killed by the henchmen of the Binay family. But if you don’t care about politics, like me, then it’s not a fucking problem. If you don’t give a shit then it isn’t worth shit. If your face is your problem then you can’t face your problem. Just don’t give a fuck and move on with your happy life.
There are many factors with regards to being successful with the opposite sex and looks is one of them. The other factors are confidence, posture, voice tonality, body language, frame control, height, money, and so on. What I think my mentor is trying to say is that if you don’t have this quality, good looks, then just shut the fuck up and approach women. The problem with this is that most people make their physical looks as their excuse that, consequently, makes them unsuccessful with women. Excuses are for losers. Period.
Looks matters but it’s not the only thing that matters. David de Angelo says in his book, “Attraction is not a choice.” What attracts women is personality first then looks. He doesn’t say that personality alone attracts women, so that only means that we’re on the same page here. There’s no magic bullet in the “Game”. Being successful with women has many factors. It’s like 1% body language, 1% Humor, 1% Frame control, 1% looks etc. etc.
If you’re not good looking, like my friend Dagul, then don’t make your flaws your excuse for not becoming successful with girls. There are a lot of factors in attracting women that you can work out. Some are what I have mentioned above.
With looks, you can make the most out of it. Change you’re haircut, trim your pubic hair in your nose, grow a beard (to cover your ugly face), tattoo your eyebrows and so on.
If you can’t afford a plastic surgery to look like Brad Pitt, then shut the fuck up and approach anyway. There are lot a flaws with every human being on this planet. Nobody’s perfect. If you let these flaws get in your way on getting what you want I life then you’re a disgrace to the bro code.
-Cleo
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Went out to the club last night with the owner of the gym where I workout, together with my gym instructor who I pay with laughter, siopao, and Sprite.
After some time, we finally got our table with all the beers in the world. The owner of the gym is like a local gangster here in my place so everyone was greeting us, aside of course, from his tattoos which climbed onto his face and head. Talk about first degree value with a permanently peacocked guy.
I opened sets, dance game, had two numbers, and a kiss, then, I went back to our table to cool down. Right behind me was the bar. Two minutes or so later, HBs and guys walked pass behind me and they settled at the bar. They are beautiful but one really caught my attention.
There was this 5'10" HB (HotBabe), short hair, well-dressed, that type who is a professional by day and a party-goer by night. I looked at her more from a distance. She's an 8.5. I approached her. And the game began.
Me: <looked at her from head to foot, this is my opener, hehehe>
HB: yes? <a very condescending tone>
Me: You know what they say about girls who sits on a high chair with their left leg hanging higher than their right leg?
HB: what?
Me: Logical and witty
HB: paano mo naman nasabi yan?
Me: thank you for that question, I think you are really logical! <change the subject and disqualify> but man, you are tall! What are you? 5'11”?
HB: 5'10" actually
Me: ang hirap humanap ng boyfriend pag ganyan height mo, ano'ng klaseng boyfriend nakukuha mo?
HB: mga okay lang, mayayaman.
Me: really? I know what you mean, your height dictates status. To be honest, Ii thought you're a bitch cos of your height pero naisip ko I had girlfriends na matatangkad and they are down to earth. Okay naman pala ugali mo.
HB: oo naman noh, mabait naman ako.
Me: <key script >you know, i really wanna get your number and text you pero I think it's too early for that, so let's know each other first. Is that alright?
HB: sure
Me: so i wanna know you more on a deep level, ready?
HB: sige
Me: what's your favorite ice cream flavor?
HB: hahahahaha,
said hi to her friends, made a bubble by teasing, future projections, being cocky, role reversal
HB: so you working?
Me: Yep. <back turn, hehehehehehe - simple compliance>
HB: heyyyyy, soooooooo, what's your work
Me: Oh yea, do you see those three guys?
HB: Yes.
Me: I'll get back on that later <opening thread 1>. Anyway, I make people buy what they think they need but actually they don't <opening thread 2>.
Me: Huh? Paano yun?
HB: It's like this... You know when I was a kid, I used to go to my lolo's room. There maghahanap ako ng suit niya. I'd put them on and kunwari I'm a business guy. Sobrang ang hahaba nun. I think I was 6 years old then. I even have my imagined car and imaginary business associates. I'd go in a tall building. Very wide! People are there taking calls, some are smiling and others are serious. All of them greet me 'good morning' and all of them on their office get-up. Then I'd hop on the escalator na sobrang taas to my office. Di pa kasi uso saken ang elevator nun e (True story, I’m a dumb kid).
Then I'd conduct a meeting in front of people. At the end of the day, we'll shake hands and go home. I grew up with that dream. Never let it go. Managing the marketing department now and conducting meetings is what I do. Although I don't really work hard, I have this book 4HWW pero that's another story. <Closing Thread 2>
HB: Wow. Grabe ka nung bata ka a! Pero That's nice
Me: Ay oo! <no transition> actually, I had a girlfriend when I was 7 years old. Her name was Sandra. She was so cute! We'd share sandwiches tsaka ice candy. We were the perfect couple. Then came Gary. He has leather jacket. Inagaw niya saken si Sandra. Broken-hearted ako ever since.
HB: Hahahahahaha. Awwww. wawa ka naman!
Me: So who did you choose?
HB: Saan?
Me: Dun sa tatlong guy kanina? Sino pinakapangit? <closing thread 1>
HB: hahahaha. I’d say the emo guy, then the guy on blue collar, tas yung isa.
Me: So who is the guy you wanna kill, you wanna get married with, and you just want to have sex with?
HB: Yuck!
Me: Kunyari lang if you don't have the choice or else B1 and B2 would go inside your ass?
HB: Hmmmm... Si emo gusto ko patayin, si may kulay ang buhok, pwede ko na pakasalan, and blue collar is so-so sa sex
Me: Yuuuuuuuck! Eeeeeew! Baba ng taste mooooo!
HB: hahahahahah...kaw e.
Laughed and all... Introduced her to my two friends. Introduced her friends to my friends. Shot.
Me: You know what's funny?
HB: What?
Me: We've been talking for some time now pero we don't know each other’s' names.
HB: Oo nga no.
Me: I'm ------.
HB: Lyn.
Me: What do you do?
HB: I'm a lawyer.
Me: I see. That's nice. That means you like 69 and a lot of licking.
HB: hahahahahaha! paano mo naman nasabi yun?
Me: Well, ganito kasiiiiiiiiii....No, actually, i don't know, I just wanted to say that as it is. Hahahahahahaha
HB: Hahahaha
-Some conversations I can’t discuss here because it’s X Arts Exclusive-
HB: You are so naughty! Bad boy ka noh? Ilang beses mo na ginawa to sa mga babae mo?
Me: Tingnan mo ugali mo! Pinaparatangan mo pa ako e kayong mga babae ang kinakawawa kaming mga lalake. Gusto na nga kitang ligawan pero naisip ko may quality kang ayaw na ayaw ko.
HB: What's that?
Me: Hindi ko pwede sabihin. Baka kasi mapikon ka.
HB: Nooo! Tell me, please.
Me: Baka kasi katulad ka rin nila. Gagamitin lang katawan ko, tapos itatapon lang kung saan saan after kong magperform. Huhuhuhu.
HB: Kapaaaaaal!
Me: Tsaka we're too similar. We can't be together. We're gonna have dinner dates. Then sex. Then fight. Then make up sex. Then dinner. Then sex. Then fight. Make up sex, fight, make up sex, make up sex. Mamamatay tayo.
HB: Hahahaha. You are so naughty.
Me: You are sexy Lyn. Come with me kung kaya mo attorney.
dance floor, kissed, kino (sensual touching), A LOT OF FUCKING KINO, kissed her here and there, kissed again, holding hands, etc., every person - guy and girl - was looking at us, then back to the bar
HB: How old are you?
Me: Guess...
HB: I give up.
Me: hahahaha. you are such a girl. i'm 24 attorney.
HB: You’re 24? I'm 27. Ambata mo pa! Dami ka pang...
Me: Objection your honor! Leading!
HB: What?
Me: Madam, you are illogically assuming- stating my birthdate as your exhibit A, while in fact, exhibit B you locking your lips with mine a moment ago discredits your assuming statement and exhibit C clearly defines that LEADING your hand to the dance floor all the way to my heart is the way to go.
HB: Tang ina! Overrule! Hahahahaha dance floor ulit.
Me: I wanna get your number.
HB: I have a boyfriend.
Me: I understand. So what's your number?
HB: I can't, pinag-aral ako ng bf ko that's why I'm a lawyer na.
Me: Okay. No problem. If you are happy with him, then I have no right to ruin it.
HB: No, I'm not happy. It's just... I can't explain.
Me: I got two minutes.
HB: Hahahahaha.
-my new darkarts™ routine-
HB: Tangina. Gusto ko na huminga, be free, and everything you've said.
Me: Is that you telling me we can have sex now?
HB: Are you gonna pay for it?
Me: <hohohohoho> I just...want to be with you tonight.
HB: Paalam lang ako.
Me: Okay.
There you have it. Did someone say the more professional-high status the girl is, the harder to game her? Suuuuuuure! The more intelligent a woman is, the more game-able she is. Period.
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Is sex dirty? Only when it is being done right.
- Woody Allen
After months and months of watching porn, after countless days of perfecting your seductive finesse, after grueling hours of shaving your pubic hairs, that pretty chinita girl you just met was crazy enough (or too drunk) to ride with you to those red buildings with a Japanese woman holding a fan in front of her face. The night of all nights has come and the gods of sexiness blessed you this time when there is a full-moon and the stars shine like diamonds..........
Then you came without her. Not a pretty sight and definitely not very satisfying according to women. Well, our very own Alpha Wolf shares his thoughts on how to avoid this and how to make the lovemaking more satisfying. Why you should read on Ryu's thoughts? Because the guys from UNO Magazine approve this message.
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5 Things Women Want in Bed that They Don’t Want to Tell You
Admit it. We think about this all the time. We secretly wonder what we lack in sexual prowess and what we do wrong every time we "do the deed?" However, we do not ask our fellow male friends, for fear of ridicule. Ironic, because almost all men have the same thoughts and challenges in this area, yet we don’t discuss it. On the other hand, if we ask women, they probably would not tell us.
Thank the heavens for UNO Magazine then. I’ve compiled the things that women would prefer you’d do or not do in bed, and listed the top 5.
Here they are:
1. More foreplay please!
"What is foreplay?" – Really now? If this was the first thought that came into your mind 15 seconds ago, then you need to stop watching porn videos!
Foreplay is the appetizer before the main course, the warm-up before the work-out, or the calm before the storm… Foreplay is all about getting to know each other's body better. This is where you check for her physical responses and reactions to certain stimuli. This is also the part where you try to "arouse" each other sufficiently enough to want to have carnal knowledge.
2. Last longer.
Women take longer than men to climax, so wait for her! That means, no premature ejaculating and learn to pace yourself.
In short, don’t "come" without her, if you know what I mean.
Either last longer during sexual intercourse, or do more foreplay.
Trust me, if you’re consistently able to do this, you’d have already beaten around 80 – 90% of the men she slept with.
3. More dirty talk.
Men are visual creatures while women, on the other hand, are more attuned to their auditory sense (hearing); so learning how to talk dirty is a great way to arouse her.
Women would never tell you to do this, and they won’t even initiate this type of conversation for fear of being judged negatively. It’s up to you to initiate this and find out when she’ll contribute to the conversation, not withstanding all her moans and wordless sounds.
4. Stop asking permission and lead!!
Nothing screams "boy" louder than one who always asks for permission before doing something. Being a real man involves taking the initiative and apologizing later, if wrong; rather than always asking for permission for fear of being wrong.
That’s because women expect their men to dominate them; and take them to a wild and exciting sexual journey where the men are the drivers and they are in the passenger seat, hoping to experience something new.
Try something new and don’t ask for her permission. Lead the dirty talk. Be the first to take her hand and put it where no other person had been.
Be a man, not a boy.
5. More eye contact, caressing and kissing.
Sex is not all about a inserting a long thumb-looking object into a hole. If this was the case, then women would no longer need men, and you’ll witness the banana industry skyrocket to an all-time high.
Sex is an emotional activity for women, and involves all senses of the body compared to men who focus only on the touching and visual senses.
In fact, if women had a 6th sense, they’d involve that as well.
When having sex with her, stop to kiss her lips occasionally, if not frequently. Caress the other parts of her body, and kiss it. This indicates to her that you appreciate every area of her body. Making eye contact during sexual intercourse is a very strong and intimate act; and would really form a strong bond between the 2 of you. You know what they say – "The eyes are the window to the soul."
If women had their way, they’d want me to list everything here; however, due to the limited space we have, I'll just leave you with a tip for future reference: It's true that women won't tell you what they’d wish you’d do in bed; nonetheless, they will indicate it to you. Read between the lines. Be sensitive to her and you will know what she badly needs from you.
Sidebar: 3 foreplay tips
- Erogenous > Sexual Areas. Focus more on the erogenous areas of her body rather than the sexual areas. While touching, caressing and kissing (yes, in that order) her erogenous areas, slightly brush her sexual areas from time to time.
- The slower, the better. Different women have different speed preferences when it comes to foreplay. A rule of thumb is to keep on doing foreplay until she can no longer take it and wants you, or better yet, begs you to have sexual intercourse with her.
- It starts outside. Foreplay is not limited to the bedroom. Aside from kissing, talking dirty in public is a great way to increase each other’s buying temperature. Other instances include smelling her neck and brushing your hands across her thighs and waist; or playfully patting her ass or touching her chests. Yes, that may sometimes be taboo, but that’s what makes foreplay in public exciting.
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 “Drinking is fun! It makes me feel horrible and sexy!”
― Warren Ellis
When I was 14, I fell in love. It’s not your ordinary “love”, it’s more like an obsession. She took all the pain away, she made me realized who I really am, and most of all, she makes me happy. So happy that I feel like I’m entitled. I feel I can do anything I want and don’t give a fuck what others might think of me. She made a little space for me in this world where I can just express myself. I fell in love with alcohol.
This is not a confession of an alcoholic and I don’t even consider myself one. I want to talk about how alcohol affects my “game,” how it affects my success with women and how it affects my life.
About 80% of the girls I fucked, I fucked when I was possessed by the holy spirit of alcohol. In fact, I was really fucked up when I was devirginized (is that even a word?). I was in 2nd high school when my sister and I went to her friend’s house to spend a 3-day Christmas vacation. I will spare you the details but on day 1, I was really hammered with this cocktail drink that after an hour I was blackout sleeping on the sofa. When I woke up, I saw this really cute girl sitting on the same sofa.
She was Meagan and that night she taught me how to kiss, grope, etc etc. We ended up having sex that night. On day 2, I fucked some more (different girl) and on day 3 I’m back to fucking my teacher.
That alcohol adventure thing became a cycle for me until college. The funny thing is that I got laid a lot by not even trying. I just want to drink, have some fun. and talk to friends. But at the end of the day, a girl will miraculously fell on my dick.
We all know that alcohol will somehow help us in the “game.” When we are intoxicated, instantly, we become more confident, we can express ourselves more freely and most of all, we don’t give a fuck.
Most of the PUA (Pick Up Artists) though will think of it as cheating and they will say something like “It’s only liquid confidence!” I might as well say that “I don’t give a fuck what you think!”
The truth is drinking is not cheating. Cheating is making a field report in the forums that you fucked this girl but actually you didn’t (LOL). Drinking is a choice. If you want to drink, then drink. If you don’t want, then don’t. Basically you drink to have more fun. That’s it. If you’re drinking for your “game” to be better then you’re doing it wrong, man. You drink to loosen up, to be more relaxed, and to be able to express yourself more freely.
Drinking too has cons. It will make you sloppy and even emotional. It’s true that you can easily make a person cry when he/she is drunk. There’s always pros and cons. It’s a yin-yang thing. To drink or not to drink: That is the question.
Again, it’s a choice. If you’re a PUA and tell other PUA that they shouldn’t drink because it’s liquid confidence and it is cheating, it is just pathetic.
Also, too much of the good stuff is bad. Everything must be in moderation. Too much booze will make your liver hate you. So be friendly with your internal organs. It will also give you a whisky dick in times when you need your penis the most and I must tell you, it’s not so nice.
Remember, drink to have fun. Not to get good with girls. If you’re doing it to for your “game” to get better, then you’re leading yourself to failure. Eventually you will be dependent on booze and it will ruin your “game” and even your life. Two bottles anyone?
Alcohol: Because no great story ever started with someone eating salad.
Evil is what you make it.
- CLEO
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"For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time." ~ Isabel Allende
This is one of the many re-uploads published in the Facebook FTA Page that failed to make it here in our website during its glorious reconstruction. Without further ado.
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Let me talk to the ladies for a moment here. Why do men search for sex? Because we love to put our stick in anything that moves . I'm kidding. Or am I?
We want to have sex cos we think you're hot. That's it! Trust me, for most guys roaming the club who dream to have a one-night stand, that's their reason. You didn't think he walks around the club to find a wife, did you?
Now. Why do women have sex?
1. Cos she thinks you, the guy, are worthy
2. Adventure
3. She loves you or she thinks she loves you
4. A guy turned her on
5. A guy turned her off
6. You're a celebrity
7. You look like a celebrity
8. You belong to the same social circle of a celebrity
9. She pities you (way to go Friendzone!)
10. You have a British accent
11. Fifty Shades of Grey
12. Three bottles of Tequila
I can enumerate dozens more, but here's the common thing about all of these reasons: EMOTIONS.
You stimulate a woman's emotions and you have a bigger percentage of bringing her home.
Before you go ape shit on me for saying women are secondary people (I never or will I ever say that) and more emotional than logical, here's a quick explanation.
I'm not objectifying women. I'm simply saying this is the reality. Humans had been existing for 5 million years (remember Lucy?). This emotional circuitry had been wired in their system through evolution, through countless times for survival. Finding a mate was more of survival instincts. Of course, there was no copy of Fifty Shades of Grey back then but cavemen got clubs! Close enough!
So how do you trigger these emotions?
Everyone is attracted to power, status, unpredictability, mystery, looks, and manliness. Yes, everyone, including straight guys.
Ever wondered why women are so attracted to bad boy looking gentlemen (i.e. Joseph Estrada, Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt)? Why despite a womanizing reputation, girls flock those guys' way?
Rockstars portray this aura. That's why they have more sex than you have. Ask John Mayer and his notorious escapades.
Are you funny like the great Dolphy or just badboy but cheesy like Robin Padilla who married Mariel Rodriguez 4 months (?) after they met?
Am I saying you have to be a douchebag? No. I'm saying, cultivate your personality to gain power, status, and manliness. Harness yourself first before women see your value. It's all about VALUE. How much value do you have?
Don't give me those lines like, "I love myself, and I am worthy enough. Women should accept me for who I am." Don't! Just don't. That's the same reason why you don't have a girlfriend. Cos you have been, well, you.
Be a better you. I'd choose 2.0 version than 1.0. I'd buy Windows 7 or 8 or Mac than Windows 93.
Women like men who can intrigue them. Women want to be swept away and swept off of their feet by powerful men, by men who are funny, by men who look good than just plain good-looking, and by men who have status.
Don't argue with evolution, at least not just yet.
To end this, let me quote Billy Crystal:
"Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place."
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