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We don’t usually post negative topics here at X Arts but since one of our core objectives is helping men find satisfying relationships, it’s just natural that we put some thoughts about this issue. We are not moralists. With all the articles about how to get women, you guys should know by now that we aren’t your beacons of morals. But hey, we have a social responsibility to fulfill! So rather than being formal about it, let us present this commentary via free-writing. There are leagues and groups of women giving their all-out support to Ms. Ai-Ai delas Alas. Here’s one from an all-guy (almost) community.

 

SINfully yours,

 

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Kamakailan lang nung napanood ko yung issue tungkol sa’yo Ms. Ai-Ai delas Alas. Nagets ko lang na may away kayo ng newly husband mo at ngayo’y hinihiwalayan na. Sa totoo lang kasi, hindi kami masyadong concerned sa mga façade ng mga artista at sa industriyang ginagalawan ninyo. Pero nakakagulat ang konteksto ng interview.

 

Some people say it’s your fault you entered a relationship with a guy days after you met him, and actually married Jed Salang after a year. They also say you should’ve left him the first time he beat you. Some people also think you don’t deserve to be happy because of your physical looks, or because of your age. Dapat sigurong lumangoy sa dagat-dagatang apoy ang mga taong ‘to.

 

Sa mga Batang 80’s at 90’s, inidolo namin ang mga pagpapatawa mo. Hanggang dumating ang “Ang Tanging Ina” movie series, naroon pa rin kaming humahalakhak lalo na’t may donut at coke na dala sa sinehan o maging sa dvd na tig-trenta pesos. One way or another, we laughed because you’re a genius at what you do.

 

Ngunit ngayo’y umiiyak ka. And not a single thing is funny about it.

 

Sa totoo lang, sa YouTube ko na lamang napanood yung interview mo. Noong una, akala ko’y pareho kayo ni friendship Kris Aquino ng drama. Pero actually hindi, at marahil hindi na ako magbibigay ng komento tungkol sa kamag-anak ni Bam Aquino.

 

Kahit bali-baliktarin natin ang mga pangyayari, walang sinumang babae ang marapat na kaladkarin sa sahig matapos itapon na parang basura sa kama. Walang sinumang babae ang deserved na mapakasalan dahil lamang sa pera niya. Walang sinumang babae ang dapat manakawan ng integridad. Walang sinumang babae ang dapat na manakawan ng pagkababae.

 

Jed Salang… Hindi ko nga alam kung ano dapat itawag sa soon-to-be ex husband mong ubod ng pogi. Gusto ko siyang tawaging “kalbo masamang tao” pero marami akong mga kaibigang Vin Diesel-inspired. Gusto ko rin siyang tawaging “hayop” pero may cute na cute akong aso. Gusto ko siyang tawaging demonyo, pero baka magalit pa si Satanas sa akin. Tawagin na lang natin siyan JED SALANG. Walang kwenta, JED SALANG. Sugarol, JED SALANG. Huthutero, JED SALANG. Sadista, JED SALANG. Wife-beater, JED SALANG. Bitch, JED SALANG. 

 

Nakuha pa niyang magalit noong di ka pumayag na mag Casino Hotel kayo to celebrate your monthsary? Balita ko that was the same week or day na binigyan mo ang CLASS A-hole na ‘to ng hinihingi niyang kotse. Lakas makapag DIVA ni JED SALANG. Daig pa kaibigan kong bading na sumasali sa mga barangay contest na nagrereklamo pag natalo.

 

Sa mga magsasabing bading si JED SALANG. Itigil niyo ang pag-insulto sa mga bakla. Mangilan-ngilan ang mga kakilala kong baklang takot. Karamihan sa mga kaibigan kong bading ay ia-uppercut ka pag sinubukan mong magpaka macho.

 

At hindi ka-macho-han ang physical abuse. Sa laki niyang yun, manununtok o mananampal siya? Wow ha. Ano ‘to BDSM? Fifty Shades of Grey?

 

JED SALANG is the definition of a COWARD. Kaduwagan ang pumatol sa babae. Bakit hindi kaya niya subukan sa mga lalake dito sa grupo namin ang pananakit niya? We’ll layeth the smacketh down on your candy ass, if you smell what The Rock is Cookin’?!

 

Pero maging sapakin at bugbugin ang mga JED SALANG ay hindi sapat para maiganti ang mga katulad ni Ai-Ai na ang tanging hinangad lamang ay ang kanyang sariling fairy tale. All we can give JED SALANG is our pity that he refused to be loved by a Queen. In a world surrounded by money, pathetic affairs, and greed, true affection is rare. It’s a commodity not everyone can afford, and frankly, not everyone deserves. And you failed to take advantage of that exceptional opportunity.

 

Sabi nila, ang mga ina raw ang ilaw ng tahanan. Ngunit saan maghahanap ng liwanag ang mga babaeng katulad niya kung intensiyunal ang kadilimang nakapalibot sa kanya? Sa bawat talas ng mura at sa bawat hampas ng sampal, unti-unting pinapatay ang pagkababae mo.

 

Hindi kailanman magiging tama ang pagyurak ng dignidad at paghubo sa pagkatao ng isang babae.

 

They call it domestic violence. For me, that is a very soft term for abuse against women. Why don’t we call it domestic terrorism? Why don’t we call it homicide? Why don’t we call it murder?

 

To all the mothers, sisters, and daughters who suffered and who still suffer this archaic exploitation, it is understandable that you are afraid, that you are in pain, and that you lost your trust. People may blame you for what you have not done to prevent this abuse from happening, but never should you blame yourselves for the evil act inflicted upon you by these horrible men. It was never, nor will it ever be, your fault that you are a woman.

 

Hindi kasalanan ang pagiging babae, hindi kahinaan ang pagiging babae.

 

To Ai-Ai, love will find its way. Maybe not now, but certainly, someday. And you should be steadfast in facing this divorce. Besides, you’ve already been to hell, what else could you not overcome? And yes, baby, you are beautiful.

 

To Jed SALANG, well, we don’t really have any more words for you. But here’s a trivia. Did you know that 90% of communication is non-verbal? So that means body language and gesture account for most of the meaning of an interaction. So what am I trying to say? Here’s my middle finger. Have an interaction with it.

 

Yours truly,

X Arts

 

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