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Approaching and Closing... is a Process not a Move Email

Approaching and Closing... is a Process not a Move

"It doesn't matter how slow you go, as long as you never stop" - Confucius

"Respect the Process" - Robert Greene, from the book 50th Law

“Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it." - Greg Anderson

A lot of people mistake the delivery of the pick-up line as the whole approach itself. They think if they deliver the magic pick-up line or magic opener, then "Boom! She's done!" The result is, they spend a lot of time just thinking about the opener, what to say, and also how to say it... and it is exactly this type of thinking that leads exactly to "analysis paralysis."

The better mindset to have is that, the approach is a process. It does not just consist of the opener. There are a lot of factors in the process of approaching, and even…

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Skillset of Seduction: A Simple Tactic to Deal with Gold-diggers Email

Skillset of Seduction: A Simple Tactic to Deal with Gold-diggers


"She take my money when I'm in need

Yeah she's a trifling friend indeed
Oh she's a gold digger way over town
That dig's on me" - Jamie Foxx, in the song "Gold-digger" by Kanye West

What is a Gold-digger?

Urban Dictionary defines gold-digger as "Any woman whose primary interest in a relationship is material benefits. A woman who cares more about a man's bank account than she does about the man."

In layman's terms, a gold-digger is someone who doesn't care about you unless you're rich and are willing to share that wealth with her.

We encounter gold-diggers a lot, and some even have been victimized by a lot of these materialistic creatures. Many of them are pretty too, and they use their looks and beauty to get what they want... to get the man to pay for their drinks, pay for their food, provide for their transportation, pay for their tuition, provide…

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Having Presence: How to Separate Yourself from the Pack: Email

Having Presence: How to Separate Yourself from the Pack:


"If one cannot command attention by one's admirable qualities, one can at least be a nuisance."
- Margery Allingham, English Writer (1889 - 1996)

In the world of human beings, there's one commodity that every person needs, and if you take it away from him/her for a long time, though he/she will not die, he/she may kill him/herself, or he/she may "die", meaning, cease to have any meaningful existence.

It's more important than food, water, shelter, clothing. I even think this is the most important and necessary commodity any person would want to have, so he/she can have a meaningful existence.

In order to have this commodity, people want to be famous and be popular. Heck, people go on hunger strikes, fasting, initiate wars, kill people, rape people, expose themselves as the mastermind behind certain crimes, forego food and become anorexic, take drugs, be alcoholic, set legacies, audition to become…

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Attitude of Seduction: The Natural and Attractive Mindset Email

Attitude of Seduction: The Natural and Attractive Mindset


"You were born an original. Don't die a copy"
- John Mason, best selling author and speaker

Just be yourself”What every guy, girl says when asked for advice about attracting your significant other

"You are most powerful, most effective, when you are completely yourself. But don’t try to be yourself. That’s another role. It’s called “natural, spontaneous me.” As soon as you are trying to be this or that, you are playing a role....Give up defining yourself – to yourself or to others.” - Eckhart Tolle, author of The Power of Now

Hello people, seducers, ladies' men, pick up artists, real men, gentlemen! It's been a long time since we posted something new here. For this day, I would like to post an article written by my fellow member of the Wolfpack and very good friend Blade Rivers. I think this is a very well-written article, with lots of…

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Being "In Touch" - The Art of Kino Email

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"No matter how much technology you have at your command and friends in your social networking site, there is no substitute for the gentle touch of another live human, for the feel of their breath on your neck, for soft whisper from their lips into your ear." -
Bill Allin, stalwart pilgrim of life, http://billallin.com

Over the past 2 weeks, we have been getting questions about this thing called "Kino". For those not in the know, kino refers to "touch" in the seduction community.

The most commonly asked questions about kino that we get are:

  • When is it proper to kino?
  • When should we start doing kino?
  • Should we wait for IOI's first before doing kino?

And so on and so forth. My 1 single answer to all these questions about kino is, just go do kino naturally, and frequently. The reason is that, kino should not be…

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Skillset of Seduction: Positioning Yourself for Better Kino and Touching Email

Skillset of Seduction: Positioning Yourself for Better Kino and Touching



"Physical touch, is one of the last love languages" -
Anonymous

I'll just cut to the chase. This article is written by our favorite X Arts Resident Wolf - General Lee. Actually, he's entitled it "Touching: The Side Point and Deflecting High Ground", but I renamed the title to make it easier to understand.

In conjunction with this article, you might also want to read "Being In Touch": The Art of Kino, because there's no use being in a great position to do kino, when you don't actually know where to touch, how to touch, and when to touch it.

So the following is his article. Enjoy.

Touching: The Side Point and Deflecting High Ground

by General Lee

It's 3 in the morning. I'm cold, with fever, and just have something in my mind (well, earlier I watched some movies, Knowing and 30 Days of Night.. hehehe).

Touching is important. It is important because it is…

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The Difference between Real Men and Boys... Email

The Difference between Real Men and Boys...

 

"A true leader is not a searcher for consensus, but a molder of consensus" - Martin Luther King, Jr.

"Innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower" - Steve Jobs (founder of Apple, Inc.)

As between men and women, as a general rule, men should be the leaders. Now, before you feminists go out lambasting me and throwing all sorts of violent comments against me and X Arts as being a sexist group, hear me out. What I meant by "leaders" is that men should be the ones doing the leading in the field of flirting, and seduction.

It's true, we should be the one to initiate, and that does not only apply to making the approach, but it also applies to bringing the relationship into a higher level, touching, commitment, etc.

And this, as I found out, is the one big difference between guys who are really good…

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Skillset of Seduction: Cocky Romantic Email

Skillset of Seduction: Cocky Romantic

"It's never what you say, but how you make it sound sincere." - Marya Mannes

"Love is three quarters curiosity." - Giacomo Casanova

For this article, I would like to share with you a post from a fellow X Arts Practitioner, and soon-to-be-Wolf October.

Even though the title says it's Cocky Romantic, it's just actually part of it, and I won't be explaining that method simply because I'm not the creator of Cocky Romantic... all credits belong to fellow Wolf Psy for that. And, I'll only be explaining one of the 1 million ways on how to do it.

This is gonna be short, but it's a good way to make something happen when you're with your girl, even if she be already your girlfriend. So here's his post below...

Mid-Game: My Golden Gambit

By October

Okay. It's been a long time since I posted something here with value. This is short, yet powerful,…

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Skillset of Seduction: 4 Simple Tactics in Winning Any Argument Email

Skillset of Seduction: 4 Simple Tactics in Winning Any Argument

"He who has learned to disagree without being disagreeable has discovered the most valuable secret of a diplomat" - Robert Estabrook

"If you can’t go around it, over it, or through it, you had better negotiate with it." - Ashleigh Brilliant

My friend and fellow Wolf Popo decided to give X Arts a little gift. On his 100th post, in the X Arts Forum, he shared a valuable skillset, one that is not only useful in seduction, but more so ineveryday life. So let me share below what he shared with the premier seduction community in the Philippines...

Sleight of Mouth Patterns

So what is a sleight of mouth pattern? 

Basically the originator, Robert Dilts, noticed that whenever when someone argued with the co-founder of NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), Richard Bandler, no one seemed to win. He also noticed that there was a pattern on how he would argue. It also…

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Skillset of Seduction: Why Phone Numbers Don't Lead to a Date Email

Skillset of Seduction: Why Phone Numbers Don't Lead to a Date


"A goal without a date is just a dream" -Milton H. Erickson

This is one of the Golden Articles written by one of our core members here in X Arts , and soon-to-be White Wolf Marco Lee.

I think this is a great post to be looked into and mastered by anyone seriously looking to avoid what we call a "waste of space" in your phonebook. Waste of Space because you're just keeping her phone number in your cellphone without it having any purpose other than to increase the storage on the phonebook in your cellphone.

So before I waste your time with any more of my yappings, I'll then proceed to Skill Set of Seduction: Why Numbers Don't Lead to a Date... by Marco Lee:

Why women don't reply:

1. She's busy with any other mode of activity etc...- You can't help it. Maybe she's in a organization, student council, cheering squad?…

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